It is difficult to lose a special pet. There are no words that can make us feel better. Only time will help, but even that does not always give us comfort.
Clients often ask "When should I get another cat?" The answer is that it is really up to you. I suggest that you get another cat when you are ready. For some people, that might be right away. For others, they may need a little time before getting a new cat.
There are lots of unwanted pets out there that need your love. But don't be rushed, you'll know when it is the right time and the right cat.
For more information on grieving and pet loss, please read Coping with Pet Loss.